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Should a gift be chosen after asking?

Both options use the same budget.

A

Choose a surprise myself

I want to show I noticed their taste

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B

Ask what they need

I want it to be useful

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Reasons to choose A
  • I want to show I noticed their taste
  • Choosing is part of the gift
Reasons to choose B
  • I want it to be useful
  • I want to avoid an unwanted item

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How would you discuss a gift that misses the mark?

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