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RelationshipsBoundaries in a relationship

Should couples share access to their phones?

Nothing to hide, but private conversations exist.

A

I'd show it if asked

Openness builds trust

VS
B

Our phones are private

Love still needs privacy

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Reasons to choose A
  • I have nothing to hide
  • Reducing anxiety matters more
  • It's fine if we both agree
Reasons to choose B
  • Relationships need boundaries
  • My friends' privacy matters too
  • Trust means not needing to check

After choosing

What matters most in your choice, and when might it change?

Rather than looking for one correct side, discuss the conditions that matter to each of you.