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A friend has a worry. What would you ask first?

Your friend brought it up.

A

How did that feel?

I want to hear the feeling first

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B

Shall we look for a solution?

I want to offer practical help

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Reasons to choose A
  • I want to hear the feeling first
  • I want them to have space
Reasons to choose B
  • I want to offer practical help
  • It can reduce uncertainty

After choosing

What matters most in your choice, and when might it change?

Rather than looking for one correct side, discuss the conditions that matter to each of you.