Pick OneAll debates
FriendshipBeing a good friend

Warn your friend about their relationship?

You discover a clear problem your friend doesn't know about.

A

Be honest, even if it hurts

Real friends say difficult things

VS
B

Wait until they ask

It's their choice and responsibility

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Reasons to choose A
  • I can't pretend I don't know
  • They'd ask why I didn't tell them
  • Honesty is part of friendship
Reasons to choose B
  • They need to realize it themselves
  • I could damage our friendship
  • There may be things I don't know

After choosing

What matters most in your choice, and when might it change?

Rather than looking for one correct side, discuss the conditions that matter to each of you.